爸爸在書(shū)房教育兒子：It's not our place to be judge and the jury, so in the future， just judge!牧師其實(shí)也很孤獨(dú)，在Orel去他家找他時(shí)他說(shuō)：Company isn't an interruption, just an occasional reminder of my involuntary solitude.爸爸對(duì)友誼的見(jiàn)解：Friendship is a complicated headache, but it's ultimately worth it.爸爸對(duì)生活不滿(mǎn)天天喝酒麻痹自己，有集他對(duì)Orel說(shuō)：Lying to yourself, one of the best survival tactics I know.印象比較深的一次爸爸跟兒子在study里的對(duì)話

–" Drinking on a daily basis is not the only way to be an adult."–" Well, I tried not talking about my feelings too."–" Son, behaving like a grown-up is many things. First and foremost, it means doing things that you hate doing. "–" Like what pop?"–" Well, like dealing with people who make you unhappy, being stressed about things you have no control over and working soul-numbing jobs."–" Oh!"–" Then, gradually, as we endure these hardships and accept them as normal, that's when we finally earned the right to get drunk and be emotionally distant from our families. "–" Just like my father, I love you dad."–" I'm hungry too, let's go eat!"